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<table border="0" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1" width="100%" class="forumline"> <tr> <th class="thCornerL" width="22%" height="26">Autor</th> <th class="thCornerR">Wiadomość</th> </tr> <tr> <td width="22%" align="left" valign="top" class="row1"><span class="name"><a name=""></a><b>zvswgogna</b></span></td> <td class="row1" height="28" valign="top"><table width="100%" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"> <tr> <td width="100%"><img src="http://picsrv.fora.pl/subSilver/images/icon_minipost.gif" width="12" height="9" alt="Post" title="Post" border="0" /><span class="postdetails">Wysłany: Czw 9:15, 09 Sty 2014<span class="gen"> </span> Temat postu: Handling criticism from other people</span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><hr /></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><span class="postbody">Handling criticism from other people <br />In my previous article, I talked about the difference between feedback and criticism,[url=http://www.fcgeo.ca]Ugg Canada[/url], and how we can handle our own inner voices more constructively. But what about those outer voices? That's the topic of this article. <br />Into each life a little rain must fall. Into each life a little or sometimes a lot of criticism will intrude. <br />Getting criticism from others isn't fun, even when we know it will help us improve our performance. Sometimes it doesn't; sometimes we become so rattled that our performance deteriorates. <br />We all know we're not perfect, but somehow it's scary to be told that by someone else. <br />When you get criticism from another person, what can you do? What if that person doesn't understand feedback, and just gives you a list of what you did wrong? <br />There are several things you can do, The first one is: <br />A while back I watched a contestant on one of these reality shows where one of the judges was well known for making glib, harsh comments to contestants. Most people on the receiving end of his comments just ducked their heads and looked uncomfortable. This young woman finished her act; he made his sharp comment. Then she faced him and said, "What does that mean? What should I change, or do more of, or less of?" Startled, he looked at her with new respect and did give her a little feedback. <br />She was on the right track. Sometimes you need to ask questions to elicit the information you need. One of my clients had a manager who frequently told her she was so "aggressive". So she asked , "what specifically did I do that makes you feel I am aggressive? How would you have handled that situation or worded it differently? <br />A helpful critic will be able to tell you. If he or she can't, question more deeply: <br />"When you say I'm "aggressive", do you mean you think I take charge too much, or that I say things that are hurtful to others, or that my voice is too powerful?" <br />"Do you feel I'm that way all of the time or just some of the time?" "Are there some things you feel I have done right? If so, what are they?" If you can't get useful information from this person, discount what they are saying and look for help elsewhere in improving. <br />Insecure people often ask too many people, " How did I do?" What do you think? <br />They get varying comments that simply confuses them and doesn't help direct them into a better path. <br />When you want to advance in any field, find someone who is obviously an expert in what you are trying to accomplish; Then make sure that person is capable of giving feedback, not just criticism and that the person is genuinely interested in helping you improve. <br />Into each life a little criticism must fall, but like rain, you can either let it drown you or you can use it to nourish your growth. She has more than 30 years' experience in the field of stress management. She currently works to provide stress and time pressure solutions to harried women, those women who seek "Islands of Peace" in their overlybusy lives. Her talks to groups of what she calls "harried women" are receiving rave reviews.</span></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" height="1" class="spaceRow"><img src="http://picsrv.fora.pl/subSilver/images/spacer.gif" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></td> </tr> </table>
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